Stop Buying Clothes You'll Never Wear
Learn to separate what catches your eye from what actually works for your wardrobe and style in 16 minutes.
You Know What You Love.
But Do You Know What Will Actually Work For Your Wardrobe and Style?
But when it comes to your own closet, or deciding what to buy, you don't know how to tell if something will actually work for you.
So you default to the same safe pieces. They fit. They're familiar. But they don't reflect who you are now.
You've never been taught how to look at what you love and figure out if it's right for you.
After 30 Years as a Stylist, I Keep Seeing The Same Mistake
Confusing style essence (the feeling you love) with style elements (the actual pieces that work for YOUR body and life).
Once you know how to separate what you're drawn to from what will work, you start to see your closet clearly.
And you can finally answer the question every piece of clothing asks:
Is this me?
That's exactly what I teach you inside the Style Essentials Mini Course.
The Style Essentials Mini Course
Discover the one distinction that explains every piece of clothing you've ever bought and never worn.
Here's Exactly What's Inside:
Video Training: How To Discern "What's Me"
I walk you through the distinction between style essence — the feeling you love — and style elements — the actual pieces that work for your body and your life. with real outfit examples so you can see exactly how to apply it.
12-Page Workbook: Your Style Essentials Guide
Exercises and prompts to uncover your personal essence and identify your style element preferences. This is where the insight becomes usable.
Your Closet + Shopping Decision Tool
A simple checklist you can use standing in your closet or in a dressing room. Are you drawn to the essence or the elements? This tool helps you know before you buy.
Your Style Inspiration Board
Connect the dots across everything you're drawn to — on other women, on social, in stores — and reveal the patterns that define your style: the colors, the silhouettes, the details that keep calling you in.
Your Immediate Action Plan
Four specific steps — tonight, tomorrow morning, before your next purchase, and this week — so the framework doesn't just sit in your head. You'll know exactly where to start.
Curated Style Resources
Additional videos and outfit breakdowns with more examples of essence vs. elements in action.
What They Say
It's like the beer goggles on my closet have disappeared. I look at my wardrobe differently and getting dressed is fun again.
AMY - midlife woman
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"My biggest win was learning how to recognize style elements in clothing. Now when I see something I like, I can break it down and figure out if it's actually ME."
Mary Ann
midlife woman
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"It's so much easier to shop now that I know what will and won't work for me. No more impulse buying because it's a good deal! If you never wear it — it was a waste of money!"
Erin
midlife woman
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Wondering If This Is Right For You?
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Hello
Meet your stylist Elysha Lenkin
I've been a personal stylist for 30 years, working with celebrities like Tina Fey, Carrie Underwood, and Serena Williams.
But my real expertise comes from styling hundreds of midlife women over three decades and seeing the same mistake over and over: confusing the feeling you love with the pieces that actually work.
Once you understand this distinction, you can finally move forward with clarity, and curate a wardrobe that energizes this next chapter of your life.
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