For midlife women 

The Personalized Wardrobe Playbook

A 75-minute 1:1 session that shows you what looks good, what to buy, and how to put it together into outfits you feel great in. 

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When did getting dressed get so complicated?

Somewhere along the way - amidst all the midlife changes - what used to feel simple, easy even, became exhausting.


You lost track of what works because your body is different, so much is different now…and you don't know what's right for you anymore.


So you try things - scrolling for hours, buying pieces that look promising, hoping something will click.
 

But when you put them on, they never look as good as you pictured.


Does this ever get easier?
 

Yes. But you have to do something different.

What you've been doing - the scrolling, the guessing, the hoping - hasn't worked.

You need someone who knows what they're looking at to show you what's right for your style so you can see what to buy and how to put it together.

That's what I'm here for.

In my 30 years of styling

I've worked with smart, capable women who are successful in all areas of their lives - except their wardrobe.

 
That's the one thing that eludes them.


So I created something to help. 

The Personalized Wardrobe Playbook

You need a map.
I'll show you the way. 

Here's how it works

01

Fill in your Style Snapshot

You'll answer questions about your body, your life, and what you're struggling with right now so I understand where you're at.

02

Send me 3 outfit photos

I need to see what you're actually wearing right now to get a baseline of your everyday style. 

03

Meet me for your 75-minute session

First, I'll review what's happening in your wardrobe. I'll look at your outfits and show you what I see - what's working well, what's holding you back, and the patterns that are keeping you stuck in a rut.

Then, I'll show you what's possible. What could work beautifully for you. The pieces you're missing. Ideas for putting things together you wouldn't think of. What you need to feel pulled together.

Finally, I'll give you your roadmap forward. What to look for when you shop. How to think about building outfits. The specific direction you need so getting dressed feels energizing instead of draining.

You'll receive the session recording and a written playbook with your personalized direction so you can reference it anytime.

You'll walk away with YOUR personalized roadmap - what works for your body, what to look for when you shop, and how to put it all together.

Here's what that could look like in your life:
  • You see items on a rack and know instantly whether they'll work for you

  • Combinations in your closet you never considered suddenly make sense
  • Shopping with direction - no more wandering and hoping

  • You see exactly what it takes to feel put together
  • Getting dressed feels energizing instead of draining


You really helped me re-discover my sense of style.
It’s been dormant and I’ve told myself (and started to believe) that I didn’t have any style. I truly appreciate your help in uncovering what has been there all along. (and also showing me new things!)
JM
I used to hate shopping. 
But now I no longer think ‘Nothing fits, so why bother?’ because I have a clear strategy and understanding of what's right for my style.

Valerie

Getting suggestions for how to put things together differently, whether it's a color combination or items you never thought of putting together was INVALUABLE.

Klara


Ready to finally feel clear about what to wear?

The Personalized Wardrobe Playbook: $399

In 75 minutes, I'll show you what works for YOUR body, what to look for when you shop, and how to put it together. You'll get the session recording + written playbook with your personalized direction.

Book by February 26th and get a customized color palette included!

This is for you if you've been unhappy with your wardrobe and style.

You're successful, capable, good at everything you do.
But your wardrobe is the one area that eludes you.

You're busy.
Between work, family, and everything else on your plate, getting dressed has become one more thing you have to figure out every morning.

Your body changed. The old rules don't apply anymore.
What used to work doesn't fit or feel right, and you're not sure what to replace it with.

You've tried figuring it out - scrolling options, subscription boxes, asking friends.
But nothing gave you the answer for YOUR body, YOUR life.

You don't want to keep guessing.
You want someone who knows what they're looking at to tell you what works for you and what to do next.

Meet Your Stylist


Trusted by: First for Women, InStyle, The New York Times and Oprah Magazine

Hi! I'm Elysha Lenkin. I work with midlife women who want to feel energized in their clothes.

I got my start styling NYC commercial shoots for big brands, magazines and celebrities like Carrie Underwood, Tina Fey, and Serena Williams. After 30 years of this work, I can spot what you can't see on your own - what's working in your wardrobe, what's holding you back, and what's missing to make you feel put together.

The Personalized Wardrobe Playbook gives you access to that expertise so you can align your style with all the changes you've gone through. In 75 minutes, you'll finally understand what you need to feel great in your clothes. 

See what other Midlife women have to say:

Erin

It's so much easier to shop now that I know what will and won't work for me. No more impulse buying because it's a good deal! If you never wear it — it was a waste of money!

MaryAnn

Instead of feeling lost and overwhelmed in the large department store, I saw tons more possibilities. I felt much more “expert” because I know what colors will flatter and what styles to focus on.

Kathleen

Thank you for giving me permission to ditch the tunics as I had become so self-conscious about my weight I succumbed to them.

Jessica

I didn’t know what my style was. But after this experience, I have a new understanding of my body and who I am, and what I like to wear. I know what clothes look good on me, and how to put it all together into a style that’s mine

Sherry

Clothing is an area of my life I've struggled with and now I am focused on what I want.

Valerie

Elysha embraces everyone’s uniqueness. Instead of saying 'Here is my protocol for what you need to do and let's figure out how to fit you into that,' she gives realistic guidelines and suggestions that could easily be adapted for each person in a way that reflects their personalities.

Got Questions?

Read on for the answers!

What happens after I complete my purchase?

You'll get a link to fill out your style snapshot and upload 3 outfit photos. At the end of the quiz, there’s the link to my calendar to book your session. 

When will we meet?

You'll schedule your session after submitting your quiz. Sessions must be completed within 90 days of booking.

Will you shop for me?

No. This session is about showing you what works for YOU so you can shop with confidence. If you want hands-on shopping help, you can apply this purchase toward my full styling package.

What if I hate all my clothes?

Then you especially need this. The reason you hate your clothes is because you don't know what works anymore. In 75 minutes, you'll get that clarity.

What is the refund policy?

This is a final purchase. Once you book, we're committing time together. No refunds.

Can I be honest with you?

You're navigating so much change - your body, your life, everything feels different. And in the middle of all that, getting dressed became one more thing you just couldn't figure out. So you've been managing. But you're certainly not feeling energized.


But you have a choice.


You can keep doing what you've been doing - scrolling for answers, hoping something clicks, watching other women and wondering how they figured it out.


Or you can invest in yourself. Get the expert direction you need. Finally understand what works for YOU.


Investing in yourself sends a message - to yourself and everyone around you: I matter. This matters.


I'd be honored to help you with this. 

You gave me exactly what I needed - guidelines for when I go shopping! Also having the feedback on my outfit pictures was so helpful. You pointed things out that I had never thought of and I’m going to try your suggestions.



Leslie

Elysha gave me brilliant recommendations in an easy and clear way for how to play up the areas I love about my shape, and play down the areas I struggle with.


Alissia Knight

As someone for my entire life has said, “I hate shopping for clothes”, I’m now having fun with it.  Because I’m looking for things on purpose that I’ve learned about from Elysha.

Aleta 

I just wanted to say I was feeling really great ALL week (never happens!) and I especially liked what I was wearing each day and I was definitely employing your strategies and I just felt so good! I’m having trouble remembering the last time I really struggled to get dressed in the morning (trying on multiple combinations and feeling frustrated and upset). I just go through your tips and suggestions and ask myself questions and it keeps me on track. It’s about focusing on the RIGHT thing — not “oh god, these pants used to be LOOSE and now I can’t button them!” — you start from a much more centered place and you will not find yourself going down your self-imposed “rabbit holes."

Klara

Working with Elysha is like investing in a college course.

It’s knowledge that I’ll never forget, and can apply for the rest of my life. So when I was considering working with her, I saw the experience paying for itself.

Laura

Elysha really helps you pin down what your individual style is so you understand how to choose clothes that let your unique personality shine.

Marlo

If you want to rock your midlife years looking and feeling great in your clothes then Elysha is your girl! I love the session we did and I am truly looking at my wardrobe differently.

Sherry