3 Ways To Turn On Your Good Outfit Energy

3 Ways To Turn On Your Good Outfit Energy

You know when your hair looks good—maybe you recently got it cut, or perhaps the stars aligned in perfect formation. Either way, you’re like “MY HAIR LOOKS GOOD AND I’M GOING OUT!” I call this GOOD HAIR ENERGY.

The easiest way to look your best and get good energy


This energy feels especially GOOD when you’ve been stuck in low grade vibes… like how I was with my hair.


My hair was awful—for months! Everyday, I’d look in the mirror and be like “Yeah my hair doesn’t look good, but whatever.” 

And even though I didn’t like my hair, I got comfortable doing nothing. This became my norm. Mostly, because I didn’t know what else to do with it. But also— it was easier to stay the same. I told myself it didn’t matter.

Finally I couldn’t go on anymore. I got a haircut.

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And I LOVED it! It was like taking a huge load off my shoulders (literally!)


Having the new look inspired me to try new things…I broke out my hairstyling tools and got creative. I started having fun! And once I started feeling creative and having fun, it inspired me to show up more in life—in videos and in person! I’d tapped back into my GOOD HAIR ENERGY. No more low grade vibes from me!

Did you know you can do the same thing with your style? 

You can tap into your GOOD OUTFIT ENERGY even if you’ve gotten comfortable in your leggings or sweats—not because you love wearing them, but because you don’t know what else to wear. And it’s easier to do nothing.


With the world opening up, it looks we will be more social than before. You don’t have to play safe anymore! Your GOOD OUTFIT ENERGY will motivate you to get out and be seen!

Watch the video where I share how to get out of your low grade looks and elevate what you wear:

And keep reading for 3 ways to turn on your GOOD OUTFIT ENERGY.

1. Discover Your Unique Code For GOOD ENERGY

This is about articulating what you love and how you want to look that makes you feel like your BRIGHTEST, MOST BEAUTIFUL self. Looking at someone else in their good outfit energy can be inspiring, but you must remember that her outfit creates HER GOOD OUTFIT ENERGY—which is unique to her.


Your GOOD OUTFIT ENERGY has your unique coding. It’s based on a feeling you have when you’re supported by your clothes. This is when all the elements of your outfit come together, you love how you look and you’re like “YES! THIS IS SO ME!


To articulate what you love and how you want to look, come up with 3 words to describe this feeling. Use these words (your north star, is what I call them) to guide you to your best style choices. Try on the outfit and pay attention to how you feel. You’re looking for that sensations of “YES! THIS IS SO ME!

2. Get Rid Of Everything You Don’t Want To Wear

When you’ve got a bunch of clothes in your wardrobe that you don’t want to wear, it brings you down. It’s the antithesis to your GOOD OUTFIT ENERGY. You probably know that feeling — you open your closet and see only old and unappealing items. You feel confused, and think I HAVE NOTHING TO WEAR! Those old and unappealing items are clogging up your closet and creating stagnate vibes in your wardrobe. Let that stuff go!


3 ways to love how you look and get good energy

3. Commit To Doing Things Differently (And then do things differently!)

If you’re stuck in low grade looks like leggings and sweats, you’re dressing out of habit rather than expressing how you want to look and feel. I know it may seem hard, but you can change that! You can shift out of auto-pilot and do things differently.

And the first step is to make the commitment to yourself.

You need to shift your perspective and see the POTENTIAL with your wardrobe because this will bring you so much JOY and reshape HOW YOU SHOW UP in your life. 

Go to the back of your closet and pull out one of your hidden gems. These are the items you haven’t seen in ages. They’ve been hiding in the back. Look at it differently. See HOW you can wear it in a new way. If you always rely on the same cardigan sweater or jeans, try a button up blouse or a skirt. Do one thing differently each day with what you wear. And this will lead to a new and exciting style.

Then Amp Up Your Personal Style

And if you need help because you lack vision for your wardrobe, or you’re not motivated to make improvements on your own, checkout my group styling program, 90 Day Style Refresh where you’ll reinvent your personal style and show up more confidently in your life.

During the 90 days of the group program, I share the tools I use with my private clients which cover the basics like body shape, closet clearing, outfit creation and shopping. But I also provide the styling guidance that helps you align your outer appearance with how you want to feel on the inside. This way your style reflects who you are AND who you are becoming. No more outdated outfits! I also keep the group small to provide maximum support.

So if you’re ready to update your style and feel more magnetic in life, click here and get the details for 90 Day Style Refresh. The Fall group opens in September.

Elysha Lenkin
I help women over 40 feel unforgettable in their clothes.

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